The Dark Side of Communication

Explore the dark side of communication in this insightful video from the series "How to Speak So That People Want to Listen." Delve into the reasons behind poor listening habits, the impact of media sensationalism, and the effect of modern society on our ability to listen effectively. Discover the four leeches of communication and the seven deadly sins that hinder effective dialogue. Learn about the agents of miscommunication, including emotions and noise, and understand the crucial role of word choice in conversations. Gain valuable insights on improving speaking and listening skills, navigating organizational communication, and avoiding common pitfalls such as people-pleasing and the urge to "fix" others. Uncover strategies to enhance your communication abilities and prevent the escalation of arguments.

Why Don't We Listen?
The Impact of Media Sensationalism
Effect of Modern Society on Listening
Organizational Listening
The Four Leeches of Communication
Being Right and Miscommunication
What Is People Pleasing?
How "Fixing" Hampers Expression
The Seven Deadly Sins of Communication
Condemning, Negativity, and Complaining
Excuses, Exaggeration, and Dogmatism
The Agents of Miscommunication
Navigating Emotions and Noise in Communication
Time and Semantics
The Importance of Words
How Arguments Are Exacerbated